
The debate on same sex marriage, the right of people to get married without regard to their anatomy, is at one time perplexing and indicative of the status of tolerance in our democracy.
The only reason for the state to be involved in the question of marriage is if the union is to have the status of a legal contract between parties. Who should get married and to whom is a question that has precious little to do with sex. It is a contract to do with commitment and respect. I will argue that, compared to the legal obligations the contract entails, sex is a secondary consideration at best. Under our laws an adult person may be as sexually active as he or she may wish to be, married or not, with one or more partners, simultaneously or consecutively, same or opposite sex. From the point of view of the law, sexual activities between willing adults are okay. Obscenity laws impose a few restrictions to be sure, but obscenity laws are not concerned with what is being done by whom and with whom, so long as the activity is done more or less out of public view.